A few weeks back I had a friend say to me that I am a method writer. Thinking of a method actor who becomes their character on and off the screen I laughed at their remark. If anything, I took it as a joke.
Until now, that is.
I had no idea how much I threw myself into a novel until I wrote my second. I probably became my characters when I wrote Dempsey but it was new and like anything new, we’re not always aware of our emotions.
She exhausts me
Now that I’m writing Iris I have discovered that she is taking a lot out of me. I never realized how emotional writing a novel can be, but it is.
On a positive note, I’m glad I’m that way. It means I care about my work and I want to give the reader my best effort.
On the downside it means I have to part ways with some things that I hold dear and one of those things is my blog.
A hard decision
I love what this little blog has become but for the past two months I have to admit it has been a struggle. That damn Iris as taken its toll. Come on girl, why do you work me so hard?
I figure this novel will run about 90,000 words first draft. As of now I’m around 30,000. Like anything I write it’s emotional, fun and hopefully entertaining.
With that being said I have made the difficult decision to put my blog on hold until the completion of draft one.
But I’m not exactly gone
Fozzie will continue to brighten your Monday mornings and I will bombard your blogs with readings and comments.
You won’t get rid of me that easily.
Until I return I thank you for visiting my blog. Your visits and your comments are special. I cannot thank you enough. I will be back just as soon as Iris shuts her trap. That is a promise I will never break.
Until then – So long, but not goodbye.
Good luck with Iris 😉 and have fun 😉
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Thank you. I sure appreciate that.
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Awright! Precious wisdom in knowing when to take a break. Don’t overwork yaself, and have a good one with Iris! Be seeing you! 🙂
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Same here, Alice. I haven’t checked out your blog lately but I plan to soon.
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Always go where you are needed, I find this is always best. Already I want to know more about Iris!
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I caught your curiosity. That’s a good sign. 🙂
So true to go where you are needed. I have mixed feelings already but I think I made the right choice.
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I’m sure you have, Bryan…
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Enjoy your time with Iris, Bryan. We’ll all be waiting for you when you get back 😊.
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I promise I won’t bug you in my spare time. 🙂
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😅😊
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In some ways you took the words right out of my mouth. Great comparison to the method acting.
I feel hung over by my story, the one I’ve been writing on and off for a year. So I completely understand where you are coming from.
Good luck.
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I takes a lot out of us, doesn’t it. But in the end it’s worth it. Best of luck to your work as well.
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How true, my first novel was written on a lap top unconnected to the Internet. I had no idea what people were talking about when they said they were distracted by social media! Writing blogs and interconnecting with other writers is great but takes a lot if time.
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It sure does. Sometimes we need to step away. Writing these things isn’t exactly a picnic.
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Take the break that you need! I hope it is productive for you!
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I’m sure it will be. This was a tough decision but I think I’m good.
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Good luck with your writing. Looking forward to your return. Have a very merry Christmas!!
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You too, kiddo.
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God luck & good writing
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Thank you, Antoinette. I sure appreciate that.
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It’s so hard to balance a blog and writing, especially when you’re completely immersed in your story. I wish you all the best with the project and we’ll be here when you’re ready to come back.
Glad to hear Fozzie will still be popping online too. Happy writing and have a Merry Christmas!
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Thank you, Mae. It is a difficult balance. You wouldn’t think so when it’s just a weekly blog but it’s tough with my mind elsewhere. As you know, so many things go into our work. We are constantly thinking of something. On the bright side, Fozzie will always find ways to invade your inbox. 🙂
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Thank you for allowing Fozzie to pop in periodically. Will miss your Posts.
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I really appreciate that. Thank you.
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Good luck! We look forward to your return 🙂
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Hi, Rosie. Thanks!!!
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That makes sense. I think I’m leading that way, too.
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It’s tough, isn’t it. But sometimes we have to make a decision that’s best for us.
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It sounds like Iris has made you an offer you can’t refuse. I’m sorry to see you go (for a bit) but I can’t think of a better reason to be going. Go forth and write !
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Thank you, Dan. Yes, she demands my full attention. 🙂
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goodness, Bryan — this is not merely sad – it’s happy too! because I’m wishing you the very, very best with your writing!!! also, much appreciate your confirmation that novel writing can indeed be quite emotional – was thinking something wrong with me…
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de-AL – You are perfectly normal. It’s an emotional ride that these people take us on. We’re lucky they chose us. Enjoy them while you can. Good to hear from you.
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❤
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I like your parting comment and your parting shot … great animation! Have a Merry Christmas Bryan and end the decade by typing your fingers to a bloody pulp. 🙂
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You got it, my good friend. You’ll see me stopping by your blog plenty of times. Have a safe and wonderful holiday.
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Thanks Bryan for the well wishes. I just finished my 2019 walking goal today and hoping for no snow to walk a little more before year end. Good luck with slogging through your first draft.
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I completely understand, maintaining all the duties of social media and writing is a juggling act. Sometimes we need to focus on what we’re passionate about, or else what’s the point in it all.
Best of luck with your writing and have a wonderful holiday.
We’ll all be awaiting your return. Xxx
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Thank you, Lorraine. I just came back from your blog. See, I’m not going anywhere. 🙂
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Sometimes it’s necessary to put blogging activities on hold to work on big projects. I can tell you’re determined to write your best work, and I know you’ll succeed. We’ll be around awaiting your return.
Best of luck!
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Hi, Alice. Thank you for stopping by. I sure appreciate your kind words.
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I’m thinking on a break also…hard to fully concentrate on my WIP when I’m pulled in so many directions by social media.
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You and I are in the same boat, KT. Take a break if you need to. Nothing wrong with that.
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Best of luck with Iris–I hope you get her settled down soon so that you can return to us!
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I’m trying. Believe me, I’m trying. 🙂
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Good luck and enjoy the process! Sometimes breaks from blogging are needed – especially if it’s in pursuit of writing a novel. I’m sure it’ll be great! We’ll see you when you get back 🙂
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Thank you. Sorry for the long delay. It’s been a busy week. 🙂
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Every time I decide to give some attention to my own tiny blog, your’s is the first I check. Good luck on your endeavor!
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Thank you. I’m hoping to come back. Every now and then I get the itch to return.
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